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I think most people here are on to the right track, comparing to others whether it's in a relationship comparing to someone's other partners or just sitting on your own comparing to people around you... or what you see of them anyway which is very limited and designed to show them in the best light... you're basically piecing together a monster in your mind from little factoids and either way it is a quick path to depressionville and poor mental health.
Goodness knows I've got a truckload of failures I can look back on if I wanted to at my age, but as the saying goes man who drives while looking only in rearview mirror crashes into parked E46....... or something like that??
Seriously though, if you ever want to chat you have my number and I'm not currently working, just give me a shout any time day or night if you're feeling poorly or wanna run something by a third party that maybe doesn't know you super well but probably been down a similar road at some point. I can always make time for you sir!
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