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Breast feeding is not easy. Despite it being free milk, we both know it's not 100% soemthing you can just do. Does take time for both to learn.
Going rate for maids are $7k (live with you, cook and clean, make feed the baby). HELL i don't have that kind of money.
She and mother in law wnated the easy way out and just wanted to call.
I told them, I don't give a F who you go with a) there are single dads and moms who has to deal with this despite having only one job. b) i'm going to be forever be the D bag when they say "____ had a hard time.. told you to hire a maid" I won't ever be able to live that down.
Reality does hit cause, say if your mortgage is 5k, you are out of income for 6 mths, and if you're lucky with TOP up, you still have to pay 5k extra for the maid for few months... where does that extra 5k come from......
Wifey needs to learn to use excel and figure out budgeting. LOL
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