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Originally Posted by Badhobz
Sheeesh, it aint hard. Ive gotten some real quality ass before i was married and even nowadays, my supremely wagyu fat, bald, lazy ass can still pull some fine ass latina tacos on a business trip. You just gotta make them laugh, and be genuine. Can you make a group of dudes laugh? Can you hold a conversation with your buddies? Then its the same with the bitches. dont put them on some weird pedestal. CHARISMA !!!!.
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Originally Posted by CivicBlues
Reminds me of all the PUA and people obsessed with that book "The Game" back in the day. Now pair that up with everyone's obsessed with their potential dates' salary and NW wow I can't even imagine how fucking shitty it is to date these days.
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As a felling 190cm+ person, you don't need charisma if you have a height in this era. Having money or decent career makes it even easier. Add hobbies and ability to talk and you'll find it hard to stay single. I wasn't tall until my early 20's growth spurt. Once girls told me it was a privilege, I started noticing how girls started approaching you, they'd choose you just for your height. You can say whatever you want and shoot the shit and it doesn't matter. You're pretty much in.
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Originally Posted by rb
Some of you have been married for way too long lol. Friends of mine that have been married for 10+ years often say the same things. However, its like taking advice from someone who last fought a war with swords during a time when there was some sort of honor in battle.
Its predator drones and hellfire missiles out there now in the dating world for the most part. If you're aren't at least somewhat vigilant, you're in for a world of pain  |
The hard part is how connected we are. You stay in the city long enough and you're successful in dating, you end up hitting every social group around your age. Everyone you date becomes the 2nd girl of that friend group. Unless you go younger, but too young and you're dealing with ppl who are still in school under 24-25. 24-27 is people who are struggling to find a healthy balance in life vs first job.
People should be more honest about dating though, we have an idea of want women and men want. Idk why we play games to try to hide it.