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Originally Posted by AstulzerRZD
i'll bite - what's giving that impression?
am i coming across too logical and calculated?
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A lot of high performers think about dating values similar to you, they voice it differently. It's not a bad thing but a lot of people will think you're crazy for thinking that far.
If you're a 9/10 on the thinking chart for relationships. I'm a 8.
Less than 50% of people have an internal dialogue running at all times lol
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Originally Posted by westopher
You should still be objective, but marry for love, not logic. You’ll experience many situations where logic is out the window when living with someone for 50 years and you better be very connected to them on a deeper level to get through it.
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I think this is what I learned vs being logical
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Originally Posted by Traum
Both options sound pretty undersirable here though... 
Bad finances could fall into a pretty wide range. Potentially, it could be something as trivial as buying a lot of useless / unnecessary small items, to something as bad as chasing the latest glam lifestyle without the financial capability to do so, or anything in between. As a normal person that barely qualifies as having a middle class income, I'd say the inability to stay in the black is already a deal breaker for wifey material.
6.5 and snappy? Sorry, girl, you're already out. |
Find a 7.5-8/10, that treats you right, you vibe with and future looks good, marry her!