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renos sounds 'doable' and simple enough, but if you aren't on the tools type and get it done, it's easier said than done. i'm an office construction guy and it was a no dawg from me when i had the option. one of my coworkers is a tools guys, does it all himself, and he'll be doing renos for the next 10-15 years bit by bit. i also couldn't carry a mortgage and a construction loan either. i just wanted a place i can move in to and didn't care it it was older, i don't need new shiny marble counter tops etc.

we chose a place based on convenience of public transit and i'll tell you my parents used public transit less than 10 times in 10 years. on top of that we ended up doing montesori so they learn social skills and stuff vs brain rot in front of a screen all day at my parents. things change, i figure choose a place that best fits your lifestyle (or perceived lifestyle) for the next 15-20 years.