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The problem is who they tell each other to aim for (top 1-3% of guys). This is despite some of them being 6/10 on a good day. The inflated sense of self worth is delusional for so many of them and the apps only exacerbate this. Women get about 10x more attention on apps and this causes them to think there's a sea of options to choose from so why would they "settle".
So they keep chasing that one guy who's better rather than realizing many of the guys they already met would have made an excellent life partner. Eventually, they get to an age where they're now in panic mode because they want kids and the clock is ticking. Women will again tell each other that they shouldn't settle on any of their demands and that time doesn't matter (it very much does). Let me clarify a little here: Yes, it's still very likely to have a kid between 35-40 but the percentage of success begins to decrease while chances of complications increases. Girls beyond 40 can also have kids but it only gets more difficult from this point on.
This is where some of the women giving advice are disingenuous because they know this will only continue to hurt that woman's odds of finding a partner. They are very much willing to sabotage each other if it means better odds for themselves. Think about how often girls will tell their friends what they want to hear rather than objective reality because they prioritize feelings over the truth.
If you manage to find a girl who listens when you call out her bs, she's got a better head on her shoulders than most. Chances are, that one's a keeper. The ones who continue to be delusional in the current market will find themselves alone or doing IVF to have a baby on their own (I've got stories about this too).
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