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Originally Posted by Razor Ramon HG
TBH, there is nothing wrong if you want to spend hundreds of dollars on a first date. I think it's when men expect to get something back in return -- nothing is guaranteed.
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The issue is when you start date one at $100-200, and you see them weekly, that ends up being close to $600-800 depending on what you do. That's just for dinner, add activities, and weekend long trips.
I'm at this odd stage where there's 4 people that I've had good vibes with, but I have zero energy or desire to spend $$ on more than 1-2 dates a week, so now that I've given up, I'm getting max attention from all 4. Funny how dating works.
I also concluded if I'm not down to spend money on them, maybe I'm not into them like that? Probably cause some of them told me they prefer a 80-100 / 0-20 dynamic for paying for dates. and i have no capacity atm to want to plan dates like that.
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Originally Posted by roastpuff
Has their own place without roommate/not living with parents presumably.
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basements are okay if you're 6'1+ and built like ohtani, otherwise cooked if you want a pretty girl
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Originally Posted by spoon.ek9
The problem is who they tell each other to aim for (top 1-3% of guys).
If you manage to find a girl who listens when you call out her bs, she's got a better head on her shoulders than most. Chances are, that one's a keeper. The ones who continue to be delusional in the current market will find themselves alone or doing IVF to have a baby on their own (I've got stories about this too).
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single girls love keeping other single girls single