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Originally Posted by AstulzerRZD
gotta find the ones with more cuffed friends than single friends
when they be listening to their perpetually single friends, its' a bad time
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From my own personal experience, married girls do not tend to give good advice to their single friends either lol. There are so many of them who say things like "just marry someone rich, at least you'd be comfortable" which is direct shade at their husbands. Never mind that he (likely) busts his ass to provide for you and your family, he's just not as good as the lifestyles you see provided to rich people on your social media feeds!
Even my own female friends, some of which I truly respect and care about have awful, awful advice when it comes to dating. I mentioned this in another thread but once I stopped listening to advice from girls, things got better. There's a saying out there along the lines of don't ask the fish how to catch them and it's pretty true. They all meant well but they made my situation worse more often than not. I cannot tell you how many times I was told it was entirely my fault that things weren't working with the girls I were interested in despite it being the advice they themselves gave me.
Now, to Jinx's point, yes of course men can be absolutely awful when it comes to dating. They're the ones that ruin it for the rest of us who are genuinely good guys looking for LTR. You've got guys who cheat, guys who lie about everything, creeps, weirdos, stalkers, and the ones who are truly violent and horrible human beings. A girl has to navigate their away around all of this and it can be horrifying.
But the thing is, if they're attracted to an asshole then choose to marry the asshole, they can't complain that he's an asshole. YOU chose this dude, you KNEW what he was before you got married. More than likely it's because he was handsome/tall/wealthy that you thought you could change him or at least accept his behaviour. This goes back to choosing those "top tier" men and thinking they'll be faithful to you. These men have hordes of women throwing themselves at him. Marriage doesn't mean shit to the girl who's trying to steal your man or at least get some perks out of a fling.