To add to the fun here, speaking about sugar babying. My ex moved out while I was away in Mexico, so about 2ish week ago. That in itself was a little nerve inducing not knowing what I was coming home to.
Luckily it was ok, so that was a relief. Some of my ex's friends reached out to me to give me a rundown about what she's been up to. Apparently she had joined Luxy.com and Sugar Daddy Meet prior to us breaking up and was already amassing old dudes in her back pocket. I won't get into too many details about some of the gross stuff that happened (you don't want to get notifications for prescriptions being filled for "things" while you're on vacation), but she's currently in Hawaii right now with some old brown dude she met off the website, on their second date. She apparently has 4 other guys on the go that have been promising her a monthly allowance, pay off her bills, and expenses.
One of my buds is down in Hawaii with his family and he shoots me a msg yesterday morning telling me he saw my ex walking around the lobby of his hotel with an "elderly south Asian man", I told him fuck off, and he Facetimed me to prove he's there, LOL. He said it looked like an escort arrangement given how much older the guy was than her. Completely random that they're both staying in the Sheraton Waikiki.
We have been broken up for about a month now, and boy has she moved fast. If you told me a year ago that we'd split and she'd be running through old dudes on sugar baby websites, I would never have believed it. It's all been a real mindfuck really, I've never had a woman dog me out like this, to this day we still haven't spoken since the big blow up when I confronted her on all the devious behind the back things she was up to. It's crazy when you think you know someone over 6 years, but you really don't. It's also weird to go 6 years talking to someone daily, and then have them completely ice you out, persona non grata, like nothing ever mattered.
Sort of makes me laugh about all the mental angst I was having on deciding on a child with her and everything else, what a complete waste of energy that was
Gerbs is right, some of these women nowadays are different.