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Originally Posted by Hehe
Is it norm to take this long nowadays? Back in college years when I was actively dating, I remember the average time to go from talking-->gf didn't take all that long. Maybe a month top if that.
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To clarify talking stage in modern era is
- texting
- seeing in person
- not exclusive
also college and pre 24 dating is so much different than 25-28 working class
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Originally Posted by Tapioca
Courtship probably takes longer because people have more options these days. If you're young and attractive, you're always going to be looking for the next person that checks all of your boxes.
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also this, globalization allows guys/girls to meet more ppl in a city vs at local third spots, ppl filter a lot harder since they have more options.
if you're 8.5/10+ you have dudes in multiple cities that can fly you out or 7/10's baiting you to go hawaii, miami, vegas, mexico.
if you're spending $500-2,000/month going on early stage dating, flying someone out isn't that bad
