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Originally Posted by mikemhg
I'm finding it challenging to fit in second dates, you go on the first one, they want to go on another one ASAP, it's taxing on the social battery, not only that, it adds up financially.
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This is kind of what I'm experiencing too.. cause I don't actually want to hang out with anyone that much LOL. I find it taxing to have to look at my calendar, figure out a time, figure out date plans.. man its so much work LOL.
That said, Date #3 - went for a walk around Steveston, checked out some boutiques, had some Timothy's, grabbed dinner. $20/pp. Solid.
I am however encountering a problem.. well good problem to have I guess. I can tell that she likes me a lot, which I'm learning that it's making me avoidant on this. It's not that I don't like her, but I think it's moving a little too quickly in the feelings/attachment department and that's concerning. Reminds me of an ex and that was a disconnect of push/pull dynamics - she always felt like I didn't like her as much as she liked me.
I'm having a difficult time deciding if I should be a responsible mature adult (probably this), communicate that it's moving a little fast for me and leave the ball in her court or leaving it until she brings it up and it's a "fight" LOL