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Originally Posted by 68style
If you ain’t got butterflies and eagerness first 3 dates it’s not going to grow into that over years.
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I wasn't sure if this is what a "securely attached" relationship should feel like - never been in a "normal" relationship, I've only seen (and like
) toxic - high energy, high tension, etc.
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Originally Posted by spoon.ek9
was told I'm no longer interested, lost her damn mind, tried to get my attention after the fact, got mad that I moved on, got mad that I was bringing new girls around.
So yes, ignoring girls does often make them interested in you. However, it's usually the type of girl you shouldn't keep around anyways. Having confidence to ignore a girl to a certain degree can be helpful though because it shows you aren't concerned if things go south with her.
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Like this for example.. I love this dynamic LUUUUUL.. im definitely the problem
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Originally Posted by 68style
If you ain’t got butterflies and eagerness first 3 dates it’s not going to grow into that over years.
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Anyway, I think endearment or attraction does grow.. or maybe I'm just doing whatever I need to do to get my dick wet, as that's what happened in a past relationship. I just don't want to make someone feel like they're not enough (or not attractive enough), which is what happened with an ex.
Tho I guess maturing is knowing that breaking it off or communicating my concerns, is better than letting her develop stronger feelings for me and always feeling anxious about my feelings towards her.
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Originally Posted by Badhobz
keep going bro!!! maybe she's good in bed? dump her afterwards okay?
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Haven't got to this part and I kinda don't want to find out.. and then break her heart.