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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS
This is kind of what I'm experiencing too.. cause I don't actually want to hang out with anyone that much LOL. I find it taxing to have to look at my calendar, figure out a time, figure out date plans.. man its so much work LOL.
That said, Date #3 - went for a walk around Steveston, checked out some boutiques, had some Timothy's, grabbed dinner. $20/pp. Solid.
I am however encountering a problem.. well good problem to have I guess. I can tell that she likes me a lot, which I'm learning that it's making me avoidant on this. It's not that I don't like her, but I think it's moving a little too quickly in the feelings/attachment department and that's concerning. Reminds me of an ex and that was a disconnect of push/pull dynamics - she always felt like I didn't like her as much as she liked me.
I'm having a difficult time deciding if I should be a responsible mature adult (probably this), communicate that it's moving a little fast for me and leave the ball in her court or leaving it until she brings it up and it's a "fight" LOL
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Isn't it annoying? I need my space and alone time, the back to backs is draining. I was talking to one I like and offered a second date for this weekend and she goes "why do we have to wait until the weekend?", I'm thinking to myself because I got x and y Mon-Fri, what's the bloody rush?
How do you keep doing these cheap charlie dates? Do you give them a hard end time? The last few ones I've been on we ended up shutting the place down until 12AM or 2AM, so an easy $200 bill on drinks.