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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
met this girl, kinda kicked it off through text and Facebook chat back in Sept'ish. Had a few dates/hangouts if you will (just the two of us) and did the cliché 3 dates and you ask... Well I asked and she said she wasn't ready (which we all know is bs and they're just letting us down soft} and that we should remain as friends. Fast forward a few weeks of no communication (was seeing someone else), Christmas nears and she asks that we go Christmas light sight seeing and such. At this point I was curious if she changed her mind...still nothing intimate yet...just went to van duusen and such; saw the lights as well as cruised around. Up till April, we were just seeing each other about once or twice every month hanging out including our friends in the hangouts. But things changed...during conversations, she implied "this relationship" and "dating" I hadn't really thought much of it...could've been a word slip, but she said it again. So... Nearing the end of April and most of May, our hangouts became only us two and the frequency became seeing each other once or twice a week. Finally manned up and asked her for a relationship...and shit worked out
met this girl, kinda kicked it off through text and Facebook chat back in Sept'ish. Had a few dates/hangouts if you will (just the two of us) and did the cliché 3 dates and you ask... Well I asked and she said she wasn't ready (which we all know is bs and they're just letting us down soft} and that we should remain as friends. Fast forward a few weeks of no communication (was seeing someone else), Christmas nears and she asks that we go Christmas light sight seeing and such. At this point I was curious if she changed her mind...still nothing intimate yet...just went to van duusen and such; saw the lights as well as cruised around. Up till April, we were just seeing each other about once or twice every month hanging out including our friends in the hangouts. But things changed...during conversations, she implied "this relationship" and "dating" I hadn't really thought much of it...could've been a word slip, but she said it again. So... Nearing the end of April and most of May, our hangouts became only us two and the frequency became seeing each other once or twice a week. Finally manned up and asked her for a relationship...and shit worked out
Been wechatting with a pretty girl...super sweet....only to have her last night tell me she's has a 5yr old.............
SO?
actually i guess since this is brought up, how many of you here have or know someone who has started a relationship with a person who has a 5 year old? always been curious about this as i've had acquaintances that it's happened to
met this girl, kinda kicked it off through text and Facebook chat back in Sept'ish. Had a few dates/hangouts if you will (just the two of us) and did the cliché 3 dates and you ask... Well I asked and she said she wasn't ready (which we all know is bs and they're just letting us down soft} and that we should remain as friends. Fast forward a few weeks of no communication (was seeing someone else), Christmas nears and she asks that we go Christmas light sight seeing and such. At this point I was curious if she changed her mind...still nothing intimate yet...just went to van duusen and such; saw the lights as well as cruised around. Up till April, we were just seeing each other about once or twice every month hanging out including our friends in the hangouts. But things changed...during conversations, she implied "this relationship" and "dating" I hadn't really thought much of it...could've been a word slip, but she said it again. So... Nearing the end of April and most of May, our hangouts became only us two and the frequency became seeing each other once or twice a week. Finally manned up and asked her for a relationship...and shit worked out
Gotta be more than that-- i mean.. thats just unreal and so simple..
your story gives other guys too much hope..
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Not really interested in being a parent whether its my own or someone else's. But if I did impregnate someone I was seeing...then yes, I would step up and be a good father figure. But if I had a choice, I don't think I'd want to be a dad.
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Originally Posted by Not really racist!
run.........quick.
LOL! We only been talking for a little over a week. At least she dropped it super early on and not wait till we were in a relationship. Good thing is she will be gone all summer so there's that breathing room and everything can calm down.
Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Hopefully making a trip back down to the island soon. Finally get to see you and everyone else and it's going to be great because this town is just hard to deal with at times.
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