The Modern Dating Thread

[Badhobz]

Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS

Haven't got to this part and I kinda don't want to find out.. and then break her heart.

fag!

[mikemhg]

Originally Posted by Badhobz

fag!

He's being a good guy, props to him.

I've declined going back up to a girl's place the last few dates for the same reason.

I know where that will go and I'm not mentally ready for pound town too quickly, I'm way too much of a flight risk with trust issues from the ex.

Hooking up usually ends up making someone get attached, and if you're not emotionally available it'll just cause hurt to the other person, which ultimately isn't fair.

Good for you, BIC, don't fall for the toxic masculinity crap

[Badhobz]

Mikey youre different and at a different stage in life.

The boy is 20 years old. you should encourage him to get his pee pee wet as often as possible. All this emo shit, he can save when he's older like us. When the world beats him down some more and becomes a shell of his former self.

When youre in your 20's go to pound town everyday!!!

p.s. i think the problem is he's around us geezers all the time and its made him wayyy too old before his time. He talks, thinks, acts like a 40 year old. go do some crazy shit and fuck up your life. Otherwise regret will set in when youre older and you'll have a MASSIVE. BIBLICAL. mid life crisis.

[BIC_BAWS]

Originally Posted by mikemhg

Hooking up usually ends up making someone get attached, and if you're not emotionally available it'll just cause hurt to the other person, which ultimately isn't fair.

Good for you, BIC, don't fall for the toxic masculinity crap

And lowkey I haven't initiated that much physical into it, cause I know it's gonna get a whole lotta complicated if I start thinking with my dick lmao

and she's probably gonna get way more attached... she's already pretty damn well attached.

Giving me a bit of mom/caring vibes where she likes to take care of me.. which is a pretty good indicator of how much a girl is infatuated with you. But taking my Asia experiences and some experiences here into account, I think I need a woman who's in-tune with her feminine side and leans into that. I don't mind taking care of someone, I quite like it. I have a problem with it when they feel entitled to it.

Originally Posted by Badhobz

p.s. i think the problem is he's around us geezers all the time and its made him wayyy too old before his time. He talks, thinks, acts like a 40 year old. go do some crazy shit and fuck up your life. Otherwise regret will set in when youre older and you'll have a MASSIVE. BIBLICAL. mid life crisis.

And then this is the other part of the equation lmao. I should just do whatever and be like Gerbs.

Or I mean.. I could at least try to get shredded like Gerbs and see where I land with women too.

[spoon.ek9]

Speaking from my personal experience, I have always been the one to say no when it comes to "pound town" if I knew I didn't have any interest in the girl. If you're both in it just for a fling with both parties aware, go for it. If it's someone who has legit interest in you, I just can't. I'd feel like such an asshole afterwards. Obviously my guy friends always, always tell me who cares just get your dick wet but I ain't like that. You don't have to be either if you don't want to.

[Badhobz]

you boys have disappointed me completely.

i say good day to you Sirs!

I SAY GOOD DAY!

[spoon.ek9]

[Infiniti]

Originally Posted by mikemhg

He's being a good guy, props to him.

I've declined going back up to a girl's place the last few dates for the same reason.

I know where that will go and I'm not mentally ready for pound town too quickly, I'm way too much of a flight risk with trust issues from the ex.

Hooking up usually ends up making someone get attached, and if you're not emotionally available it'll just cause hurt to the other person, which ultimately isn't fair.

Good for you, BIC, don't fall for the toxic masculinity crap

Not sure I've ever witnessed this level of maturity on Revscene in all my years frequenting these website.

[bcrdukes]

This is why the userbase is on the decline

[EvoFire]

Maturity == boring. Boring == disengaged userbase

Checks out.

[bcrdukes]

Did you mean checks out at Costco aka Badhobz's normal day?

[spoon.ek9]

hobz is more interested in acquiring costco weiners than tired, old umm.. ladies

[Traum]

Originally Posted by GS8

Man, I am looking for a weekend only side job for the summer. They still looking for drivers or anything related?

Granted, I'm not refrigerator shaped, more tripod shaped, but I support designated drivers.

No idea if this is the thing that mike signed up for, but this is what some quick googling turned up:

https://myddride.com/careers/

It seems like you need a team of 2 in order to get hired, and that makes it a little difficult to do (for me, at least).

[6793026]

Originally Posted by spoon.ek9

Speaking from my personal experience, I have always been the one to say no when it comes to "pound town" if I knew I didn't have any interest in the girl. If you're both in it just for a fling with both parties aware, go for it. If it's someone who has legit interest in you, I just can't. I'd feel like such an asshole afterwards. Obviously my guy friends always, always tell me who cares just get your dick wet but I ain't like that. You don't have to be either if you don't want to.

100% There is friends with benefits and then there are the type that you're trying to take advantage of and it just ain't right. Some where down the line it just doesn't work out. One side either get jealous or one side just keeps on 'waiting'. I have been on both ends and being the guy who waits is never fun so i swear I won't do the same if the girl is on the receiving end.

[GLOW]

you also hear stories of consent later 'withdrawn' due to regret/revenge that can destroy your life. i remember a guy i knew in HS 'used' a girl that really liked him (and later essentially admitted he used her to her/her friends), later he was told she got pregnant (never knew if it was true) and he basically got physically threatened/extorted $ to 'deal with it'. sort of messed up his friendships/life for several years after. was he an asshole for it, yep, were those girls ruthless or just in exacting revenge / trying to ruin him after, i guess depends who you ask.

FYI it happened after HS, they were adults, i just remember the guy from HS

[Badhobz]

This is why anal is great! do more anal boys !

[donk.]

Someone change Badhobz name to Fudgepacker

[donk.]

Originally Posted by EvoFire

This energy has always been what works.

Back in university, my age cohort would go clubbing (not really a thing with the current crop it seems). Anyways, was told to go grind girls and all that which I did for one night and honestly did not enjoy it and I don't think anyone did.

Subsequently I went with a mindset of just hanging out. A few guys hanging out, being dumb trying to act like we know how to breakdance but realistically making a damn fool out of ourselves and just having a great laugh at each other's expense. That's when the girls kind of circle around and now were interested, and some of us got drinks as well.

What guys go clubbing and get reverse treated drinks?

Clubbing is still around, probably just "less" since covid

Women love guys that dance, if your at a bar, club, whatever, woman have 2 options:
-the dude in the corner staring, drinking his beer
-the guy on the dance floor not giving a shit what others think

Guy #2 will get 20X more opportunity than dude standing in a corner

[spoon.ek9]

I am 100% the guy who stands around with his drink. But also, I never did any clubbing in my 20's at all. Figured I wasn't missing out on anything and I was right

[Badhobz]

Originally Posted by donk.

Clubbing is still around, probably just "less" since covid

Women love guys that dance, if your at a bar, club, whatever, woman have 2 options:
-the dude in the corner staring, drinking his beer
-the guy on the dance floor not giving a shit what others think

Guy #2 will get 20X more opportunity than dude standing in a corner

yah yah yah, what do you know about this NERD?

[68style]

Donk still has time to post here with all the time he’s spending reading Corvette geezer forums trying figure out why his oil is going spew spew on the race tracks?

[donk.]

Originally Posted by Badhobz

yah yah yah, what do you know about this NERD?

I was the guy, in the middle of the dancefloor, doing windmills, coffee grinder, prisyadka, etc

Spoiler!

dont suggest windmills, got a dislocated first rib from that one eventually

Next mornings were usually rough, thighs were done for.

Did get some azn screamers from it tho 10/10

This was like a decade ago, met on the dancefloor:
This one chick had 0 shame, she was hot, but absolute 0 morals.
I went to her place once, she wanted to fuck, but her dad, brother, and grandma were home.
The above would be fine if it was in like a multistory house, but they all packed into a basement suite.
So we started bangin, and shes screamin, i tell her to shut the fuck up, but she just asked me to slap her harder.
Anyways, after the fun was over, i ask her why she is so loud when her grandma is on the other side of the door so to speak.
Her reply?: well my dad has her new mistress over usually, and i hear them getting it on, so its nothing unusual around here.

Man......... Ive never met someone (or a family) that fucks at "normal" volume, when everyone is home, that was the only one.
Massive turn off, she was hot too and we got along well otherwise.

We went to white pine mid winter a few days later at midnight, (no one there) went on the fishing bridge, ended up going at it again, i swear the residence at Bedwell rd probably heard her. 10/10

The pint public house: near cracktown was always a riot. 2 dance floors, endless options, bring a few friends and it usually ended up being a solid night.

[donk.]

Originally Posted by 68style

Donk still has time to post here with all the time he’s spending reading Corvette geezer forums trying figure out why his oil is going spew spew on the race tracks?

Ive burned another 850$ on a catch can set up, thank you very much.
Dont worry, il post back after i put a hole in the block

[donk.]

Originally Posted by spoon.ek9

I am 100% the guy who stands around with his drink. But also, I never did any clubbing in my 20's at all. Figured I wasn't missing out on anything and I was right

[spoon.ek9]

I don't dance bruh, it's not me lol. I also have a clubbing story that was.... not ideal. Really reinforced the idea that I was right to not waste my time and money in clubs.